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Darkness Within Culture:

No one was ever or will ever be granted Superiority over others under the moral authorities of righteousness. It is because God has created all lives equally, but superiority creates Inequality. We have seen the urge for superiority create a popularity contest between Family Members, where children compete for the attention of their parents, or parents compete for the love of their children. But at the end only the devil wins, because Resentment between the family members will be the outcome of this immoral competition.

When parents express Favoritism among their children, the favorite child will feel superior over the others. And when children favor one parent over the other, unbalance within a family structure will be inevitable. Favoritism within family is one of the tools that the Devil uses to Dismantle the human Family Structure. Children will always yearn for attention from parents.

But two parents should always be like a pair of shoes towards their children, because a pair of shoes is equal in every way, regardless of their differences of Left & Right. One wears the left shoe the same as one wears the right. The steps one takes with the left are equal to the steps taken with the right if one has no difficulty with walking. Parents should never allow their children to favor one parent over the other, and parents should never express favoritism among their children. It is the Parents' Responsibility to be Treated equally by their Children, and it is the parents' responsibility to treat their children Equally regardless of any differences of specialties that one child might have from the others, because each individual has his or her own God given specialty.

 When Children within a family are not given equal attention by the parents, the spirits of the children who are the less favored can get crushed, and his or her God given specialty might never be known. When people Feel Inferior within their own family, they can carry that curse with them to the outside world. That can be a Catastrophe to any child growing up in a society of favoritism. Favoritism among family members can break the bonds of a loving family, or Affect children throughout their adulthood.

We have seen grown ups setting goals in life just wanting to be the Most successful in their family. Trying to heal their wounds for not being the favored child, or trying to keep their status as their family's favorite child. Many People measure their success based on whom they are more successful than in their family, and some would be okay with anyone else's success as long as it is not a family member. Many are Envious because they are not the most successful in their family, and they will direct their envious attitude Towards Others, even to those who wish them well.

Many of the devil's viruses that darken the human soul start within the family structure, and Parents have a Moral Responsibility to put a stop to it. Parents often play the role of good cop & bad cop with their children, meaning that one parent will act nice Towards their Children & the other parent will act tough towards their children. This game is basically giving children a green light to choose their favorite parent, and the parent who plays the good cop is most likely to be the chosen one.

No one prefers to be disciplined & everyone enjoys being comforted. This is the reason why a strict disciplinarian parent might not be the favorite in a Family's Favoritism contest, because it is an easy choice for children to favor the parent who gets them out of trouble, or ignores them when they are getting into trouble. When children are misbehaving, Parents Must stand firm with one voice and take the proper measures necessary together, instead of playing good cop & bad cop, because children need to understand that a disciplinary parent does Not make a bad parent, and a comforting parent does not make good parent.

 Parents who discipline their children to keep them out of trouble serve the best interests of their children. But parents who comfort their Children when they Get into mischief do not serve the best interests of their children. It is as simple as that. Children need to be disciplined & given the love they deserve at home before they get Trapped within the Devil's systems of society that are destroying children who are the fruits of humanity. We have seen children struggling with the gang & prison System, and end up not caring to love or be loved.

When one does not care to love or be loved, one will most likely be in the commands of the Devil himself, and the devil would not care if it is a child or an adult, as long as it is a human's soul. It is the parents' moral responsibility to Discipline their Children, but not the devil that has no care for any human soul. The devil designed a system that prevents parents from disciplining their children, and it is the very same system that locks children up in Prison as a disciplinary measure, or as a Method of punishment.

The Devil seems to be acting in the best interest of children with his disciplinary systems. But the reality these Systems produce dismantles the overall bonds of the human family structure. Both children & parents are being locked up in prison through the devil's disciplinary system. But humans can put a Stop to this. It is Parents' moral responsibility to lead the way & allow children to follow. To discipline a child is to inform the child of his or her Responsibility for greatness.

But many parents see Enforcing Rules on their children through punishment as a disciplinary method. Some parents will act like the king of the castle with their children, and end up being their own king in their lonely castle, because they will implement some rules that will Force the Children to Leave their household whenever they have the chance, and coming back will be not part of their plan. We have seen children, mostly our youths, running away from home and wandering around on the streets, which might leave their parents wondering what they did wrong if they were yet to realize what they did wrong.

These children will Leave the home that has all their needs available for the street, where they will have to hassle for any of their needs. They are willing give up the Home's Privileges just Because of the rules that are attached. Parents must understand that disciplining your children and pushing your children away are two very different elements. Playing the king of the castle with children by setting senseless Rules for them to comply with is pushing away your children.

Enforcing a rule is not what disciplines, because society enforces many of its laws with severe Punishment, even with death, and people are still breaking these laws on a regular basis. If enforcing a rule would discipline one, the prison system would not be as congested as it is, and the courtrooms of Society would not be an everyday drama. If physical disciplinary Methods have Failed the law, it will fail anyone who disciplines according to the law. Parents must understand that physical punishment does not discipline a child.

To Discipline a child, the Child needs to be Informed of his or her abilities & moral responsibilities toward greatness. This can only be done through the spirit of love & understanding the principles of moral righteousness. When a child is nurtured to understand his or her moral Responsibilities & capabilities toward Greatness, just then, the child is most likely to strive for greatness.

The Expectation of greatness itself possesses the power to discipline the spirit to strive for Greatness. This method of Discipline of The Spirit works both in children & adults, because the expectation of greatness makes one feel worthy of greatness, and when one feels worthy of greatness, one will discipline oneself for the requirements necessary. We discipline ourselves to avoid many wrongs because of the greatness that is expected from us. Expectation is an element that can discipline a child to take the path of greatness, or destroy a child's path to greatness.

          Children are the Future generation of Humanity, and they need to know that greatness is expected from them. When they see the expectation of greatness from them as their moral obligation to achieve, humanity will be bright for all. But children must first be nurtured with the love of worthiness at home, so they would see their requirement of Greatness as their moral Obligation. It is a parent's responsibility to nurture children with these values of great expectation. When an expectation is good, it leads to a great outcome, and when an expectation is bad, it can lead to a bad outcome.

          When you have great expectations for your child, do not enforce them through any physical punishment, because it will grow into a tree of frustration that bears fruits of disappointment. Through the spirit of love & moral understanding lies the key that opens the gateway to greatness for any soul. When Dialogue becomes the communication tool between Parents & their Children, the parents & the children are more likely to have a better Understanding of one another.

         However, dialogue should never be used as a Negotiation tool between Parents & their Children. Children need to understand that they cannot do whatever they want to do, or go wherever they want to go if there are Potential Consequences. Parents must also understand that children adapt to their surroundings, and home should be the most influential surrounding that reflects on children's well being. No one was smoking, drinking, using drugs, or terrorizing people from the moment they were born. But a child can pick up these immoral behaviors based on their environment.

       Parents should be the First role models for their children, by setting up proper standards at home for children to adapt to, before they adapt to a wrong system, or choose a Role Model that will ruin their lives. We have seen Children being influenced by gangs & the drug-dealing system, which ends up ruining their potential for greatness. These systems' paths are most likely to lead anyone behind bars or to the graveyard.

        When children enter these Systems, they fall under the control of the Devil, because they will brag about their reckless behavior towards others. Some will try to find a shortcut in life by dealing drugs for easy money, though their lives are at stake, and they will still see that as easy. The Gangs & the Drug-Dealing systems are systems of destruction, because the role models of these systems are individuals who have no regard for the greater good of humanity.

       They would brag and be proud of their artificial Livelihood: wearing expensive clothes, driving expensive cars, acting like they are on top of the world, while the world is on top of them. Because it is just a matter of time before they arrive at their chosen Destination, which is the Graveyard or Behind Bars. Then cars, money, and jewels will end up in the hands of the authorities. These individuals should not be role models for any children, because they are servants of the devil, and children must not be allowed to follow this path into darkness that ruins lives.

         The Devil's plan of human destruction is deeply rooted within many systems of society. There are many laws of society that were designed seemingly for the well being of humans, but the reality these Laws produce contradicts their claimed purposes. There is pure evil & hypocrisy within many of these laws of society that seem to be protecting children. The law will accuse Parents of abusing their Children, but the law does far worse to children through the justice system. Children can be beaten and made to endure many kinds of cruelties as a disciplinary measure within the Prison system.

         The prison system is run by the rule of law, but the same law would lock up parents for "abusing" their child, while the law itself Abuses children in Prison. It is the same system that is taking children away from their family household into Foster Care, where the spirit of a child can be Scarred with many unwanted Memories that can haunt any child even as they grow to adulthood.

        There are many adults who are still being haunted by their unwanted memories of childhood within the foster care System. The love for children can only be nurtured within the family structure.  But not through the foster care system. The discipline that children Need can only be implemented within the family structure. Any system that cares for the well being of children would Strengthen the structure of the family Household by providing its needs. Taking children away from their family household is dismantling the moral foundation of the family Structure, but the devil has granted himself a false authority that allowed him to do just that.

        The Devil is imprisoning or killing children in the name of the law, while threatening parents that are trying to discipline their children. Parents can be prosecuted, or children can be taken away from their parents by the law for many physical Disciplinary Methods, while the law can do far worse to children. It is a parent's moral obligation to understand the devil's plans of destruction of children within the laws of society. It is also the parent's moral obligation to dismantle All of these Satanic laws within society that ruin families.

         When Parents understand that disciplining a child is not laying out a rule for only the child to follow, then Implement the skill of dialogue within the family household, children will become listeners, instead of the rebels that the devil wants them to be. Parents must be the role models for their children by being an Example. Not simply by laying out some rules just for Children to Follow. We see parents doing in the presence of their children what they have forbidden their children to do, such as smoking, drug using, drinking, cursing, and so on.

        This is not setting moral standards for Children, it is setting rules for children, and children often break them just out of curiosity. They Wonder, "If it is bad Why they do it?" which is a good question. Yes, if smoking, drug using, drinking & cursing are bad, why then do grown-ups do it? We have seen these Forbidden Substances killing people. So why are grown-ups still using them, and yet telling their children not to. What they are really saying to children is "don't do it now, wait till you are grown-up." And so they will, when they feel that they are grown-up.

        This is pure human hypocrisy that the devil is having fun watching: Grown-ups using deadly substances that seem enjoyable, setting an Example for their future generation. What a sad reality: grown-ups destroying their own future generation. Children cannot be put on the path of greatness with the empty words & thoughtless actions of hypocrites. When parents are not Humanitarian role models for their children, the devil grabs the opportunity he needs to tear apart a family bond or destroy children's Potential for Greatness. Children must be taught to be gentle, kind, compassionate & sensitive towards all inhabitants of the earth.

       Humanity as a whole has a moral Responsibility to plant these seeds into the consciousness of all souls of this earth. Without it, the devil, who has no shame in using children for his dirty work, will continue to do so. And that would enable the devil to keep his devilish systems of society intact. To Strengthen the human Family Structure is a moral obligation for all humanity, and the effort to achieve this moral stand should be seen as an honorable duty.

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